Is love destined or is it a choice?
I think we choose to get to know people, to find out what makes them tick and to understand them better. I think as we make those conscious choices to meet and get to know people we find ourselves falling for those who we are most compatible with. So I suppose you could say that falling in love isn't a choice, sometimes it can seem like destiny but a lot of the time it isn't. But I've never chosen to fall in love with someone ever, it's just happened, it's never a choice, not ever.